A Fresh Start Every Morning.

Today I am nursing two sick babies. One with the croup, and one who has struggled to fight off a sinus infection for more than ten days now. Fever, headaches, nausea, and, bless her heart, the antibiotics are just not working. We will be back at the Dr.’s today, and to be honest I am feeling weary. I know we all face it, I mean I would rather be lying in the bed than her, any day. That is a mom’s nature isn’t it? Well, there is rest for the weary. Here is a post from the past, that I thought, given my morning, was worth repeating.

God’s loyal love couldn’t have run out, his merciful love couldn’t have dried up. They’re created new every morning. How great your faithfulness! (Lamentations 3: 22-23 TM)

Last week I watched an episode of Oprah with Sheryl Crow. They asked several ladies to answer the question “What do you know for sure”. One answer was that she knows that we can always start again. Everyday you have the chance to start over no matter where you are in your life.

Everyday God’s mercies are new. Every morning we awake to a new world. No matter where your world was yesterday, your circumstances can change today. God can strengthen you today, God can bring the breakthrough in your life today. Today you can have the patience with your child you lost yesterday, and you can have the right attitude toward your spouse. Today is a new day and the mistakes we made yesterday are gone.

The weariness from yesterday does not have to follow into today, but you can find mercy and rest for today.

But they that wait upon the LORD shall renew [their] strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; [and] they shall walk, and not faint. Isaiah 40:31

The Strength to Endure.

“The testing of your faith produces endurance.”
1 Corinthians 1:3 (NAS)

Everywhere I turn around these days this word, endurance, seems to be screaming at me. And in just about every area of my life I would like to scream back at it. My devotional said “God won’t permit more pressure than we can handle” and then I read Paul said “People are watching us as we stay at our post … immersed in tears yet always filled with deep joy; living on handouts, yet enriching many, having nothing, having it all.” 1 Cor. 6: 1-10. Then I hear a song, “Having faith in the long run is easier said than done; It’s hard to live out in the light of day … Despite all your tendencies, God sees it differently; Your struggle’s a time to grow …”

Throughout several areas in my life right now it seems that victory, or breakthrough, is right around the corner, yet so far away. But isn’t this what endurance is about?
Knowing what our circumstances are, we remain faithful in what we believe, in who we are, and in who God is.

Endurance means “the power to withstand hardship or stress; survival, a state of surviving; remaining alive.” I think right now, the heartbeat of what God is putting in all of us is the ability to endure. Not to wither at a trial, but instead to see it as a chance to grow, an opportunity to shine like you never have before. Sometimes there is not an answer, or human understanding for what we are going through. He is not asking for us to find an answer, but just to endure to the end, consistent in our faith, our attitudes, and our actions.

I know that what I face is nothing in the scope of human pain, and endurance. So how, if I cannot endure for a season, will I be able to share the loving mercies of God to someone who has lost a child, a spouse, a family. Whatever I endure, I know there is a purpose and a plan bigger than I can imagine. Storms in my life may come … no they will come, but as a tree planted firmly in the ground, I pray it will only reveal the depth and resilience of my roots.

Listen carefully to the words of this song. I have heard it a hundred times, and only really heard them the other day:
“I’ll praise You in this storm, And I will lift my hands; For You are who You are No matter where I am. Every tear I’ve cried You hold in Your hand. You never left my side. And though my heart is torn I will praise You in this storm.”

Go Green & Get Organized!

By Aby Garvey

“Attention shoppers! There’s a two-for-one deal in home organization!”

I have your attention now, don’t I? The shopper in all of us loves a deal, and two-for-ones are almost irresistible. But, what if I told you about an even better two-for-one–a deal that will help you accomplish your organizing goals with the added bonus of helping mother earth in the process? I’d say this deal is too good to pass up, so let’s get started!

Let’s start with a refresher of some common earth-friendly wisdom: reduce, reuse, and recycle. Applying these principles at home, will help you go green and get organized at the same. Here’s how.

1. Reduce consumption of unnecessary stuff. At the start of this article I poked fun at the lure of the sale. I love a sale just as much as the next person…but truth be told, a sale that encourages the purchase of unneeded, unloved and ultimately unused items, perpetuates disorganization and waste.

When you navigate the store on your next shopping expedition, keep these three simple questions at the forefront of your mind:

* Do I need it?
* Will I use it?
* Do I love it?

These questions are particularly important when confronted with a really good sale. Would you love the item as much if it was full price? Would you pay full price for it? If your answer is no: walk away from the bargain. Then, pat yourself on the back for your two-for-one victory. You’ve helped the environment…and moved yourself forward on your quest for a more organized life!

2. Reuse. There are numerous reusable containers on the market today that will help eliminate unnecessary waste heading to landfills or recycle centers. One of my favorite is the reusable water bottle. Instead of buying prepackaged bottled water, fill up a reusable bottle and pop it into your gym bag, soccer bag or even the kids’ lunch bags.

And speaking of bags, invest in a few reusable shopping bags, too. If you tend to over collect shopping bags, an investment of a few dollars for reusable bags will free you from a source of clutter in your home (plus, score one for mother earth!)

3. Repurpose. As you may know by now, I’m a huge fun of repurposing everyday items when organizing. And this, my friends, is another green organizing two-for-one. By reusing items you already have on hand to create more order in your home, you prevent sending items to the landfill. Plus, you’ll create a space that isn’t just orderly, but one that’s filled with charm and creativity, for a fraction of the cost of purchasing brand new organizing containers. Here are some ideas for repurposing everyday containers:

* Use ramekins or small, recycled glass jars to stow office supplies like paper clips, staples, binder clips, rubber bands and the like.
* Use ice cube trays or tackle boxes to organize beads or other small craft items.
* Use shoe boxes to create free (yet effective!) drawer dividers.

Take a look around your home for empty vessels you could use for your next organizing projects. You just might be surprised at what you find!

4. Recycle. For items you no longer need, make it simple to recycle them. Set up a recycle center for metal, plastic, glass and paper. And while you’re at it, add a separate container for household items and clothes you no longer use, need or love. When you make it simple to pass along or recycle your old stuff, it will be a notch easier to keep items moving out of your home. You’ll help the environment by passing your items along to charitable groups and organizations that will put them to good use, plus you’ll keep the clutter of unused items out of your environment.

5. Invest in quality. When you invest in quality you’re reducing consumption. The longer something lasts…the longer it will stay out of the landfill. It’s that simple.

Let’s use a toaster to demonstrate this point. Growing up, my family had the same toaster for my entire childhood…well at least until they came out with those newfangled toaster ovens, at which time the good old fashioned four-slotter got kicked to the curb. Nonetheless, let’s contrast the toasters of my youth with the toasters of today.

Today, you can buy a toaster for as little as $12.99 (not on sale!) and expect it to last for maybe a year (if you’re lucky.) And while admittedly I don’t have any concrete data to validate the one year life expectancy of a $12.99 toaster, I can tell you this: it won’t last as long as the toaster from my childhood. (Nor will it last as long as the toaster that was built to last…and has the price tag to prove it.)

No matter what you pay for a toaster…tossing it to the curb won’t feel good on the day its time has come. This is one of the reasons broken things like toasters and computers often go to basements and garages and storage sheds to age, instead of heading straight to the curb on garbage day. In short, when things like toasters die an untimely death…it feels wasteful. Quite simply, it is. Invest in quality…whenever you can. Mother earth thanks you.

Going green is fun, hip and fashionable…and now, it can help you achieve your organizing goals, too! I hope you enjoy creating some two-for-ones in your home.

Aby Garvey is a professional organizer and the founder of simplify 101, inc. Her mission is to help you create time and space for what matters most in your home and life. Aby is the author of the e-book “the happy scrapper – simple solutions to get organized and get scrapping!” Visit the simplify 101 website for organizing ideas and to subscribe to Aby’s organizing email newsletter.

Fear and Worry… The only way to truly Fail.

It is the trouble that never comes that causes the loss of sleep.
Chas. Austin Bates

 

I never think of the future – it comes soon enough.
Albert Einstein

It is not work that kills men, it is worry. Work is healthy; you can hardly put more on a man than he can bear. But worry is rust upon the blade. It is not movement that destroys the machinery, but friction.
Henry Ward Beecher

 

Never let the fear of striking out get in your way.
George Herman “Babe” Ruth

He that is down needs fear no fall.
John Bunyan

One who fears failure limits his activities.
Failure is only the opportunity to more
intelligently begin again.

Henry Ford

The greatest mistake you can make in life is to continually be afraid you will make one.
Elbert Hubbard

 

 

Stop Being So Preoccupied!

“What I am trying to do here is to get you to relax, to not be so preoccupied with getting, so you can respond to God’s giving.” -Matthew 6:32, Message Translation

Today, I would like you to give Tracy’s Blog a read. It is right where I am. What I have seen God dealing with me on, and others around me. God tells us to relax, and let him take care of things. Yet, that seems humanly impossible. When we choose to sit back and let God be God, we tend to feel that we are not doing enough.

As mother’s and wives, it can be difficult to let go of the “doing” and just enjoy “being”. But ultimately that is what God has asked of us. So today I challenge you to take a breath, don’t allow yourself to worry. If you can pay the bills pay them, but if you can not then what good will it do to waste this precious day worrying about them? Don’t worry about the house. If you have time to clean it, clean it, but at the end of the day what good will it do to have stressed yourself over it.

The point is the worry, and the stress we put on ourselves under does not add a single thing to our lives. It does not bring more money, it does not bring a clean house. In fact all it does bring is physical damage to your body, and uneasy feelings in the home.

Tracy says “Let me ask you a question: What are you in need of today? Whatever you maybe facing, God has the right gift to help you overcome every test and trial.”

Now, Go read her post! TracyHurst.com

Salmon Cakes

Here is a quick, easy, and healthy recipe. My kids, husband, and I flipped over it. (Anna was shoving them in her mouth whole, and asking for more before she could swallow. 🙂 )

Ingredients:

Salmon Cakes:

3 tsp. olive oil
1 small onion finely chopped
fresh parsley
15 oz. can Salmon,drained
1 large egg, beaten
1 1/2 tsp. Dijon mustard
1 3/4 cups fresh whole wheat breadcrumbs
Fresh Ground Pepper

Dill Sauce:

1/4 cup mayonnaise
1/4 cup fat free plain yogurt
2 green onions, finely chopped
1 tbs. lemon juice
1 tbs. dill, finely chopped
* Mix all ingredients together

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Directions:

Preheat oven to 450 degrees
Coat a baking sheet with Cooking Spray
Heat 1 1/2 tsp. olive oil in a large nonstick skillet
Saute’ onion until softened
Remove from heat and stir in parsley
Place salmon in a medium bowl. Add egg and mustard, mix well
Add onion mixture, breadcrumbs and pepper, mix well
Shape the mixture into patties
Heat remaining oil in the skillet. Add the patties and cook until the undersides are golden.
Using a spatula, turn the patties over onto the baking sheet.
Bake until golden brown, about 15 minutes
Serve With dill sauce

This recipe comes from Tracy Newton’s “Healthy Meals In A Hurry”. Her book is not available everywhere, yet, but they will soon have a website available where you can order. If you are interested in more of her recipes, and/or would like to order her book, you can contact her at healthymealsinahurry@gmail.com Full of healthy appetizers, salads, main dishes, Breakfasts & Brunches, and desserts, her book is only $15 and worth every penny. I have not tried a recipe yet that I did not like.

Marriage Is Not For The Faint-Hearted!

“Not everyone is mature enough to live a married life. It requires a certain aptitude and grace. Marriage isn’t for everyone. Some, from birth seemingly, never give marriage a thought. Others never get asked – or accepted. And some decide not to get married for kingdom reasons. But if you’re capable of growing into the largeness of marriage, do it.” Matthew 19:11-12 (The Message)

I have never read this verse quite like this before. Then I read 1 Corinthians 7. You know where some say Paul thinks you should not get married? And wow! What a different perspective than what I have read before.

Now, getting down to the questions you asked in your letter to me. First, Is it a good thing to have sexual relations? Certainly—but only within a certain context. It’s good for a man to have a wife, and for a woman to have a husband. Sexual drives are strong, but marriage is strong enough to contain them and provide for a balanced and fulfilling sexual life in a world of sexual disorder. The marriage bed must be a place of mutuality—the husband seeking to satisfy his wife, the wife seeking to satisfy her husband. Marriage is not a place to “stand up for your rights.” Marriage is a decision to serve the other, whether in bed or out. Abstaining from sex is permissible for a period of time if you both agree to it, and if it’s for the purposes of prayer and fasting—but only for such times. Then come back together again. Satan has an ingenious way of tempting us when we least expect it. I’m not, understand, commanding these periods of abstinence—only providing my best counsel if you should choose them. (1 Corinthians 7:1-6)

Marriage is not easy, or for the faint-hearted. If you have been married any length of time, you know this. It seems to me as I read both what Jesus and Paul had to say about marriage, that they had the same problem in their society that we have in ours. “Not happy in your marriage, get out! Wife put on baby fat, and you are not attracted to her anymore, find someone else. Husband not giving you the attention you want, find someone who will”… Even the disciples told Jesus “If those are the terms of marriage, we’re stuck. Why get married?”

But the rewards for sticking it out are so great. I love Dr. Bob Paul’s analogy of marriage and family (National Institute Of Marriage). Marriage and Family are like a baseball team. When you are on the same team you either all win, or you all lose. The same is true in marriage, you are on the same team. If one of you walks away defeated, then you have both lost.

God has really been dealing with me in allowing him to have every detail of my life. Recently my feelings were (not intentionally) hurt by my husband. I responded the same way I always have in the past … which I will not divulge. 🙂 Well, of course, we never really walk away with the result we wanted. In that instance we realized both of us lost. He might have done what I asked, but I had not really gotten what I wanted.

Holy-Spirit really convicted me that I was not trusting Him (Holy-Spirit) to make my marriage what I wanted it to be. Do you ever feel like it is your duty to inform your spouse of what you need? I am huge on communication. I have to tell him what I need, or he will not know, and he will for sure screw it up! Well, in most instances when I try to “educate” him, I never walk away feeling like either of us have won. Do you? Here is what I know Holy-Spirit showed and reminded me of.
– I am not my husband’s Holy Spirit. It is not my job to “convict” him of his responsibilities of husband.
– Allowing Holy-Spirit to do His job, will produce far greater results in my marriage, with far less conflict.
– He reminded me of all the times in my relationship with Ben when I allowed Holy-Spirit to have control of the circumstances, and how I always got what I needed… ALWAYS!

Now, I am not saying I have got this down. I am human as we all are. We all have a natural tendency to “Take care of me”. But God promises that the servants heart allows Him to move on your behalf, and you are guaranteed to get better results.

Marriage is not a place to “stand up for your rights. “Marriage is a decision to serve the other, whether in bed or out. And don’t be wishing you were someplace else or with someone else. Where you are right now is God’s place for you. Live and obey and love and believe right there. God, not your marital status, defines your life.You never know, wife: The way you handle this might bring your husband not only back to you but to God. You never know, husband: The way you handle this might bring your wife not only back to you but to God.”
1Corinthians 7: 3-4, 17

Dessert: Chocolate Trifle

I hope you all I had a nice Valentine’s. I was asked what I did for the Day. Not much, we had celebrated last weekend while our kids were gone for the weekend. So I cooked his favorite dinner and dessert, and we exchanged our cards and such. It was nice. We had a sit down dinner with the girls with their Valentine’s and ours placed in front of our plates to open together. I kind of liked that. Not so much just about mine and Ben’s love but the whole family enjoying the love together. They were so excited. Our dessert they helped me make, a trifle. I made them in individual wine glasses, so that it was really pretty, and used Ben’s favorite candy bar (snickers). Then we colored the cool whip pink (For V-Day) and had red Maracchino cherries on top. Here is the recipe a friend gave me. (I replaced the layer of cherries with Snickers for Ben, but it was really probably too much chocolate, and I am a chocolate lover!)

Equally layer in a glass dish: 

  • Cooked, Crumbled Brownie
  • Chocolate Pudding
  • Cool Whip
  • Cherries
  • Cool Whip
  • Repeat layers until bowl is full. Top With Cherries